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New Year, Same Me

New Year, Same Me

setting intentions versus resolutions + loving the person you already are...

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Ashley M.
Dec 30, 2024
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As the clock strikes midnight and the calendar flips to a new year, there’s often an overwhelming pressure to transform ourselves. New Year’s resolutions flood social media feeds and IRL conversations: lose weight, exercise daily, eat healthier, wake up earlier, quit bad habits, and so on. The promise of a fresh start is alluring and motivating for many, but here’s a thought:

What if you didn’t feel the need to completely overhaul your life just because the calendar changed?

The truth is . . . winter isn’t the time for reinvention. It’s a time for rest, reflection, and recharging. While the world outside might be entering a fast-paced, “new year, new me” frenzy, you don’t have to buy into the hype. This year, consider approaching change differently: with patience, gentleness, and high regard for the wonderful person you . . . already are.

What’s ahead:

  • There’s no real pressure to start over

  • Winter is a time for resting, not rushing

  • You can honor yourself (versus overhaul + overwhelm)

  • Small shifts can have the biggest impact

  • Fresh start as the same you . . .

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